Christmas is often a time filled with reflection and wonderings of the year that’s drawing to a close. For many there are tears in their eyes and an empty space in their heart as they think of someone dear to them who is no longer here this Christmas.
There may be an empty chair at the table, a space left behind that could never be filled. Presents bought and wrapped hidden under the tree that will never be enjoyed by those it was for. A special tradition that is now just not the same, without that someone who made it such so special. A favourite food or drink that you still have but is laced with sorrow as it was their favourite.
Christmas can feel like an empty time for those whose grief is raw and wounding, especially for those who’s grief is joined with anger and unforgiveness. It is okay to reserve a seat at the table for that someone special who you wish to meet again. A space left in remembrance of their life and significance. Once lived and never forgotten. It is okay to cry for those we miss especially on Christmas day when new memories are forged, and past memories are rekindled.
Our grief gives testimony to our love. But be sure to not camp out in your place of grief, for there is joy all around even in the depths of the darkest night and deepest pain. We can choose to see the empty seat as a void of all that’s been lost or see it as a reminder of someone special to us who we will forever hold dear.
Who will you reserve a seat at your table for this Christmas?
There may be an empty chair at the table, a space left behind that could never be filled. Presents bought and wrapped hidden under the tree that will never be enjoyed by those it was for. A special tradition that is now just not the same, without that someone who made it such so special. A favourite food or drink that you still have but is laced with sorrow as it was their favourite.
Christmas can feel like an empty time for those whose grief is raw and wounding, especially for those who’s grief is joined with anger and unforgiveness. It is okay to reserve a seat at the table for that someone special who you wish to meet again. A space left in remembrance of their life and significance. Once lived and never forgotten. It is okay to cry for those we miss especially on Christmas day when new memories are forged, and past memories are rekindled.
Our grief gives testimony to our love. But be sure to not camp out in your place of grief, for there is joy all around even in the depths of the darkest night and deepest pain. We can choose to see the empty seat as a void of all that’s been lost or see it as a reminder of someone special to us who we will forever hold dear.
Who will you reserve a seat at your table for this Christmas?